KEEPING IT LIT®

Purpose-Driven Christian Marriage Coaching

At Keeping It Lit Media, we believe every couple is just one decision away from a phenomenal marriage—a marriage where both spouses feel deeply valued, genuinely understood, and unconditionally loved. Founded by Debra and Jabari Steward, we are dedicated to helping married Christian couples take their marriage from "fine" to phenomenal.

We provide practical guidance and faith-based tools that inspire couples to elevate their marriage into something extraordinary—rooted in love, enriched by understanding, and strengthened by faith. Through personalized coaching sessions and dynamic marriage enrichment events, we guide couples to embrace their God-given potential and cultivate a vibrant, thriving partnership.

This is more than coaching—it’s a pathway to a marriage that’s extraordinary.

You’re just one decision away from a phenomenal marriage. Let us guide you there.

The Root Cause of Marital Struggles

Beneath the surface of every marital struggle, there is one underlying cause. One word that holds the key to understanding it all: Disconnect. Disconnect from God and disconnect from each other. This breakdown erodes emotional, physical, and spiritual connection, leading to feelings of isolation, frustration, and misunderstandings.

The Impact of Marital Disconnect

Marital disconnect is the gradual, often unnoticed, breakdown of emotional, physical, and spiritual connection between spouses. It’s the growing sense of being unseen, unheard, and misunderstood. Day by day, conversations become surface-level, affection fades, and the bond that once brought two people together begins to feel distant and strained. Over time, unresolved frustrations turn into resentment, and the relationship becomes a routine rather than a source of joy and connection. Without intervention, this cycle leaves both partners feeling trapped in silence and loneliness, placing the marriage at risk of falling apart.

Our Purpose-Driven Solution

The Keeping It Lit® Signature Framework

At Keeping It Lit® Media, we offer more than just solutions—we provide a Signature Framework rooted in a holistic approach to marriage transformation. This isn’t a one-size-fits-all method; it’s a powerful, proven system that addresses marital disconnect from every angle—emotionally, spiritually, and relationally—guiding couples on a journey of renewal and lasting fulfillment.

Our Signature Framework is built on four essential pillars:

Spiritual Connection

Fortifying the spiritual bond with God and each other.

“…Without me, you can’t do anything..”

- John 15:5 (CEB)

Selflessness and Service

Learning to serve one another with Christ-like humility.

"...be humble toward one another, always considering others better than yourselves."

- Philippians 2:3-4 (GNT)

Communication in Love

Building communication that fosters love, trust, and understanding.

"Kind words bring life..."

- Proverbs 15:4(GNT)

"If another believer sins against you, go privately and point out the offense."

-Matthew 18:15(NLT)

Forgiveness and Grace

Cultivating the ability to forgive and offer grace in every circumstance.

“…be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God has forgiven you…”

- Ephesians 4:32 (TLB)

At Keeping It Lit® Media, our dynamic Christian marriage coaches walk with you through every step, proactively applying these pillars, ensuring your marriage doesn’t just heal but thrives. With ongoing support and personalized guidance, you’ll develop lasting habits that strengthen your bond and create a marriage that flourishes over time—because true transformation requires more than a quick fix; it’s a journey of consistent growth and commitment.

Christian marriage coaching to transform your marriage restoring faith, intimacy, and communication.

Your Marriage Transformation

At Keeping It Lit® Media, we’re here to help you do more than just heal from disconnect. With our guidance, you will gain the tools needed to proactively nurture a marriage that is deeply rooted in Christ. Whether you are facing challenges or simply seeking to deepen your bond, we offer personalized, actionable steps to strengthen and enrich your relationship.

This is about more than restoring what was lost—it’s about creating a marriage that reflects the beauty and purpose God intended for you both. We’re here to help you build a marriage that thrives, one day at a time.