Mission Driven Marriage Transformation
Every couple is just one intentional decision away from a phenomenal marriage—
A marriage where both spouses feel deeply valued, genuinely understood, and unconditionally loved.
Founded by Debra and Jabari Steward, Mission- Driven Marriage Transformational Architects
And creators of The Keeping It Lit Signature Framework for Marriage Transformation,
Keeping It Lit Media serves Mission-Driven couples who are ready to take their marriage from "fine" to truly phenomenal.
The Root Cause of Marital Struggles In One Word
Beneath the surface of every marital struggle, there is one underlying cause.
One word that holds the key to understanding it all:
Disconnect.
Disconnect from God and disconnect from each other.
Disconnect erodes emotional, physical, and spiritual connection,
Leading to feelings of isolation, frustration, and frequent misunderstandings.
The Impact of Marital Disconnect
You’ve been showing up—faithfully.
For your calling. For your family. For everything on the calendar.
But in the midst of it all,
Intentional time with each other has taken a back seat.
There’s been more focus on completing tasks
Than on intentional time connecting with each other—
On managing life instead of truly seeing,
Knowing, and loving one another.
The Silent Strain of Marital Disconnect
When left unchecked, disconnect can take a heavy toll—emotionally, mentally, and even financially. Many couples who experience this breakdown eventually find themselves facing divorce, a decision that doesn’t just dissolve a marriage but leaves lasting scars on everyone involved. But this doesn’t have to be your story.
Our Purpose-Driven Solution
The Keeping It Lit Signature Framework
We offer more than just solutions—we provide a Signature Framework rooted in a holistic approach to marriage transformation.
This isn’t a one-size-fits-all method; it’s a powerful, proven system that addresses marital disconnect from every angle.
Emotionally, spiritually, and relationally—guiding couples on a journey of deeper connection and lasting fulfillment.
Our Signature Framework is built on four essential pillars
Spiritual Connection
Selflessness and Service
Selflessness and Service
Fortifying the spiritual bond with God and each other.
“…Without me, you can’t do anything..”
- John 15:5 (CEB)
Selflessness and Service
Selflessness and Service
Selflessness and Service
Learning to serve one another with Christ-like humility.
"...be humble toward one another, always considering others better than yourselves."
- Philippians 2:3-4 (GNT)
Communication in Love
Selflessness and Service
Communication in Love
Building communication that fosters love, trust, and understanding.
"Kind words bring life..."
- Proverbs 15:4(GNT)
"If another believer sins against you, go privately and point out the offense."
-Matthew 18:15(NLT)
Forgiveness and Grace
Selflessness and Service
Communication in Love
Cultivating the ability to forgive and offer grace in every circumstance.
“…be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God has forgiven you…”
- Ephesians 4:32 (TLB)
Your Clear Path Forward
These Living Principles, based on God's Word,
Empower couples to build a marriage deeply connected,
filled with excitement and rooted in purpose.
Our Signature Framework isn’t a set of lessons—it’s a lifestyle.
We don't fix broken marriages. We build phenomenal ones.
A Relational Plan That Works
Busyness is the silent thief of intentional connection time.
And when intentional connection is lost, marriages slip into autopilot.
The Signature Framework for Marriage Transformation is the foundation that restores what busyness tries to take. It empowers couples to anchor intentional connection into their daily lives so love isn’t left to chance, it’s built with clarity and purpose.
This is the heartbeat of Marriage Culture: a way of life where connection is daily, joy is consistent, and purpose is shared.
Rooted in four biblical pillars—Spiritual Connection, Selflessness & Service, Communication in Love, and Forgiveness & Grace—this framework empowers couples to:
- Build a marriage that is deeply connected
- Live each day alive with excitement
- Create a relationship firmly rooted in purpose
This isn’t surface-level change. It’s the plan that turns busyness into clarity, pressure into peace, and marriage into the greatest testimony of your life. Because you don’t need more hours in your day.
You need a relational plan that works.
You already carry the desire. Now you have the pathway.
Let’s build the marriage you were made for—together.